I got crapped on by a male friend of mine the other day because apparently I post too many sexy pictures of myself on my Facebook page and it makes it impossible for men to see the smart individual woman that I am because they are blinded by my physical appearance. I first of all explained to him that I don’t wake up in the morning thinking I am the most beautiful woman in the world, I wake up accepting and embracing how God has created me and celebrate every inch of my curve. I went on to explain to him that it is not my fault that society associates being pretty with being stupid and I am not responsible for how ‘men’ feel when they browse through my page because it is their decision to do so and they must deal with their findings the best way they know how. I further explained to him that people in general pick and choose the things they want to know about an individual and build a person’s character in their head based on what they would like to believe, most people are comfortable with calling pretty woman stupid because they are angered by something they really can’t change, they can call a pretty girl stupid all day long but it won’t change, it might make them feel better about how much they are lacking in the looks department but even that won’t last long and they will start cursing again. I then ended the conversation by making him understand that I don’t go through the day trying to live my life in a way that will make me more appealing to men or to anyone else. I don’t owe anything to anyone, I am on my way to finishing my second qualification and I did that with my brain and not my physical appearance, I still want one more degree and that will be done with my brain not my face, I don’t need validation about my intelligence from someone with a dick hanging between his legs.